Should you ask your friends to help you make a decision about weather or not you should get a divorce? The answer I’d give you is no. Divorce advice is something you should get from a professional. The reason is that if they (your friends) do tell you they think it is a good idea you may later come to regret taking their advice and this could cause problems between your friends. You may even become paranoid thinking they were trying to split you up if you find your heart broken from your decision. The best thing to do is to go to a counselor or look on the web for advice and make up your own mind and use your friends for supporting YOUR decision, as a listener.