I have often wonder how people who do not socialize much find time to date moreover find a person to date.  Something that would be taboo 10 years back, is now rapidly becoming the preferred way to meet a potential mate, adult dating online.  Whether it is match dot com or eHarmony, you have some reputable sources for finding some very interesting people to date online.  I helped a friend of mine meet a pretty nice guy.  Granted at first glance he is not someone she woudld have ever considered dating in the past.  She took a chance in trusting the matching of the service she used.