I just got married a little over a year ago and it was a bit mind boggling for awhile about our shared finances. We had to decide a lot of different choices for our future and whether or not it was best to Stop withholding taxes or not. Fortunately, many of our issues were quickly resolved from a financial expert that we hired, to help us collaborate our financial backgrounds, to mesh together as a couple. The financial aspect of a new marriage can get very draining, so be cautious on how you and your partner approach your finances, and always seek assistance on your quest.